Monday, April 29, 2013

For certain encounters, my presence affects things



This is a huge dilemma for me.  Concerning the first meet with a new guy for potential fucking.  This visit is more special than the rest.  It is so unscripted, so natural, so animalistic that it is at the very heart of what I want to capture on film.  Done well, I will go solo 4 times the first time I get to review it, just like I did last monday night when I was reviewing Sunday's activities, lol.  But there is a balance of how much of me being in the room  is affecting things.  Without myself being in the room, the great epic shots will not be captured as stationary cameras are more luck when it comes to being pointed at the right angle and always have to be set at a wider angle so they can catch as much as possible incase they move around.  So, with a small protest from her, I agreed to setting up 3 cameras and for me to stay out of the room for as much as possible. ( 3 cameras??? she said, lol)  Figured 3 cameras might get more lucky.  They did. Still not as good as if I was there, but I would say 80%. I can live with that.  I felt that if I didn't come in the room, then I just might capture more raw natural footage by letting the dice roll on 3 cameras.  Have to wait till the guy was super comfortable and actually telling me to be there so he could actually show off his talents in giving my woman the time of her life.

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I learned a bit and I am also cheating some.  First, GoPro cameras suck for this kind of thing unless they are picked up by one of them and held from a point of view angle, going to have to wait for future visits for that I think. Crappy vid quality (in comparison) and way too wide of a picture, people are the size of ants even if the camera is on a nightstand.  But, if that is all you got, use it, as it did actually save my bacon on one angle.  See http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/2013/04/last-wed.html for when he is pulling her thong to the side on the last 2 pictures.  Thats a GoPro camera and thankfully it was there getting that angle, it was hot.  But now for the cheat - 

read up about it here:

So far, I have not been able to test it.  I bought a JVC GZ-EX210 to work with it but the cradle only works with 2013 JVC cameras and the EX210 is a 2012.  I sent it back and will be ordering 2 more 2013 cameras,  yes, 2 more. Those 2 along with the Panny I am using http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/p/camcorder-suggestion-for-any-aspiring.html   gives me 3 camera angles to work with (bye bye GoPro).

Back to the cradle - if you read up on it you will see that you can control panning and zooming of the cameral by remote through an app for your smartphone or tablet.  I did get to use the 210 model on this last visit and did try out the zooming feature via remote from my car in the parking lot below the room.  Yup, I saw every single thing they did.  I could zoom in and out and press record or pause at any time.  This let me be able to decide if I needed to go ahead and enter the room and hand film myself or to stay out as the camera was getting good stuff.  It also let me be involved while they were having fun instead of just sitting around and wondering what they were doing.  And finally, it got rid of the only reason I had chose not to do this in the past, her protection.  I never left her alone in the past on a first meet, always took a few hookups for both of us to feel comfortable.  But now, hell, I could call 911 faster from my car then I can if I was in the  room and had to fight a guy.  This becomes a deterrent for a guy with bad intentions from doing anything evil from the start.  If I was in the room and a guy had bad plans, as much as I say I can take care of myself, I am kidding myself with every encounter that might happen.  I am not nearly as a deterrent as a camera recording everything and sending the video remotely to another location.  While the footage is kept on the camera, both screen stills and short clips can be sent to the remote location and saved, automatically if set to do so.  So even if he trashed the cameras/SD cards, evidence still exists and cops are on the way.  

Hate to talk like I did above, but it is the world we live in and a nice deterrent can let us relax more, just saying.  How did it work? good, not great, but good enough.  With a second camera and them both on cradles, this will be great.  Then I can get with the guy to see how comfortable he is and at a predetermined time, I could come in and pick up the panny and get some epic shots, but if not, I can just work the 2 cameras remotely and get plenty of good stuff.  Finally, after a few visits, or when ever it just feels right a some guys want me there the whole time to show off, even from a corner chair I can use the remote control on the cameras on the other side of the room and still get improved shots without getting up too close and have them feel like I was hovering.  Some don't like that. And it does affect things.

I will let you know how it goes the next time, I should have one camera on a cradle and one not, and also my panny, all looking from 3 different angles.

Friday, April 26, 2013

Last Sunday, new guy

This guy does it for her.  Big time. Older, more experienced, takes what he wants, yet excites her with things she has never seen before.  He is most definitely leading her how he wants things to go for future meets.  There are lots of texts going on about how her ass is his next time and how for the first time a man will be cumming down her throat, a topic she won't even discuss with me.  Yet she is excited to get busy with him on working on it.  That right there should tell you many things about these two getting together.



 


Sunday, April 14, 2013

Last Wednesday night

I don't have time to write at the moment, but still wanted to post a couple pics from last Wednesday night, 2nd hook up with the guy from Friday night.  Looks like they are planning on meeting again this Wednesday night but I am not going, she is meeting him alone in a hotel in his home town but promises to set up the cameras.  This will be the first for that, I will probably be going nuts waiting for her to get home, can't wait!








Tuesday, April 2, 2013

We're Back!!


Bam!  I am very excited.  Ok, I might be jumping the gun here.  To summarize the last 3'ish weeks, we are talking more.  We opened up to each other more than we have ever before about our feelings on the topic of the hotwife lifestyle.

It started with a blow up between the two of us, basically me finally voicing things I have noticed on where we were headed, room mates.  Very good room mates, best of room mates.  Boy did I not know how those two words got her to talk to me.  She hates those words.  She said "Is that all you want out of this, to be room mates?".  I answered with a hell no, but then talked about the signs I see.  We talked about those and that brought out even more things.  To sum that up, I could say that we most likely jumped into the hotwife lifestyle and continued in it too soon and too fast with not enough communication during the whole thing.  Looking back, it's easy to see, you know the saying on that.

But since we stopped 'playing' we both have had lots of time to think about things and be reminded of the normal lifestyle.  This was a very good thing.  We covered a lot of different topics, including her lessening libido, possible causes and what we could to to improve it.  Come to find out, we needed to talk about lots of things, things she was not opening up to me about but needed to be discussed.  For now, that's all, I will try to blog more about more details soon.

So where do I get 'We're Back!!" from?  The real good news is, she is texting two gentlemen now and one of those she plans on meeting in a week or two.  She even sent one of them some naughty pics of herself and she has been simmering all week long with a very high libido as she rides the high of thinking about fucking these guys.  We have more talking to do and she even says she has not decided on anything yet, but her foot is well into the water I would say at this point........

Just for adding a couple pictures to the context of what I wrote, here are two of the pics she sent one of the guys:



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Needless to say, he was a little speechless and I think he will be fucking her later tonight, she just won't know it as he is 7 hours away and will be all by himself when he does, lol.  He will probably be fucking her several times this week actually, I am sure.  What I see is her awakening to what she really wants and going after it.