Monday, July 29, 2013

F.A.S.

Fine Ass Shot.  Taken last week.  Scorecard from any hotwife lovers out there, scale of 1-10?

hotwife ass pic

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Another update

She got a hold of the proverbial handyman.  Happened about 4-5 weeks ago or so.  Actually, he is this guy -

http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/2013/04/last-sunday-new-guy.html
http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/2013/05/she-is-experience.html

I did not have time to give more details so here are a little more.  He came over to fix an appliance at our house, I called him, he was recommended by a friend.  He came over when I was not home and took care of the problem quickly.  She called me after he left and said he was sooooo cute that she could barely contain herself.  Said she wanted to jump him but was too shy, lol.  So, I did what any Husband of a hotwife would do, I texted him.  I said, you made my woman so happy to have that finally fixed and sent him a picture of her all done up with a nice big smile on her face.  And then texted, 'call me when you are alone'.  I am sure that interested him, probably didn't know what that was all about, but I figured if he wasn't attracted to her that he would never call or maybe he would just be to professional for a follow up call, not sure at this point.  He did.  Somewhere in there I asked him if he thought she was hot.  He hesitated, but blurted out that I was a very lucky guy as she is super hot.  I said, well, it just may be your day then, lol, cause we have an open relationship and she really likes you.  I gave him her phone number and he texted her within 10 min.  I got a call from her saying what the hell did I just do?  I said, uh oh, why do you ask?  She proceeded to explain how she just got a call from 'J' and she said that you told him that we had an open relationship and that he would love to hook up, what the hell were you thinking?  hahaha, then she said Thank You! about a million times and floated off into dreamland as she went off texting him for the rest of the night.  Those posts I listed above shows a bit more of what happened.  But, to sum it up and bring it to date, he comes by every week for a very hot 30-45 minutes of pounding her all over the living room.  He even came in her mouth and it was not caught on video so she owes me big time on that one, lol.

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Quick Update

She stayed the night with a gentleman a couple weekends ago at very fine hotel located downtown.  Had the top floor with a wonderful view.  I stayed late and then left them together around midnight, filmed the entire time I was there with three cameras/angles.  She was very, well, to be honest, drunk, lol, when I left.  She said he woke her up every 2-3 hours or so and they fucked in different places around the room each time. Even had her put her high heels back on and stand spread eagle against the huge window that was the entire wall while he took her from behind.. None of that was on video so I only have my imagination to work with.  With her being half drunk by this time, I can only imagine he had his way with her while she was fucked like she has not been in a long long time.  She was all smiles the next day, but couldn't remember much, had to get details out of her a little at a time over the next few days, lol.

In August she is traveling to stay a Friday and Saturday night with him.  She is really starting to enjoy things as you could imagine....  She is taking all three video cameras and promises me some very good video. They plan on fucking the entire time, so I do believe her on the good video part. Oh, and he was just tested for std and so was she, so, they are not using condoms.  He is just pulling out and coming on her so she doesn't get pregnant.  Um ya, hot.  He says he wants to come inside her so he is looking into getting snipped soon.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

She is an experience....










Last pic - even has some booty line showing right where her ass cheek starts, dayuuum...  I keep telling her she is breathtaking.  She shrugs it off and is shy about it.  Zero ego.  I think she just comes into her own at times like this.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Spelling errors

I get this, people expect there to be no errors in spelling or grammar for something that is worth their time in reading.  I really do get this.  I do have a spell checker, I use it, but as we all know, they only work so well.  I always read a new post at least once before I hit publish.  Then out of paranoia I go to the official blog page and read it all over again, cuz its for real this time, lol.  I find errors all over and fix them using these methods.  Yet some slip through.  I am sorry for causing such a problem for some of you.  I am pretty smart with some things, those things engage me, I am sorry, spelling does not.  If I could put my hand on your forehead and zap the stuff I am trying to get across to you, I would.  Spock would approve.  I am very engaged, very interested in what I am thinking about when I write, that I type way way too fast.  I only type 35 words per minute with no errors on this small laptop, but when I do type these posts, I am so excited, sometimes I try and type at 60 wps.  As you can imagine, the errors pile up.  If I am not excited about what I write, then no post will happen, I have nothing inspiring to write about.  Vicious circle.

But I feel that the people that might be reading this stuff, these types of topics, are ok with the occasional error as they also are more interested in the content rather than playing grammar police. So, I will continue to post and assume only the 1% are bothered by it.  If I am wrong on this percent, please email me at thehotwifehasyou@gmail.com and clue me in, please.  Also, I would be grateful if you did see an error and had the time, shoot me an email on what it is, please do not comment the post though, people who are publically told they are screwing up have a tendency to shoot back, myself included, as this poor guy found out:

 http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/2010/11/alpha-male-craigslist-ad-we-ran-for.html?showComment=1352305908891#c3933534723645856092


2 comments:

  1. Hmmm...interesting. If I had been scanning that particular Craiglist ad, the first thing that would have struck me is that the author had no idea that the correct spelling should have been "piqued"; and I'd have stopped reading there. "Peaked" has an entirely different meaning, and the incorrect use means that it would be unlikely our passions would have peaked together. So I'd have moved onto the next, more literate ad.
  2. Maybe that is why I never found anyone that fits the bill with this ad, they were so hung up on the spelling of the words in the ad that it turned them off. Good, not the type of guy I was looking for, way too much into himself then feeling the need to take a woman places of pleasure she has never been. I am sure the next excellent craigslist ad worked well for you, 'looking for cock, must be today only, me so horny' lol Cause there are soooo many well written craigslist ads to work with every week.

    If you look closer, the entire blog I am sure is full with spelling errors. Very sorry, I don't have a lot of free time and must punch these out quickly sometimes. I feel the content is important and that a word here or there misspelled does not void the content, if so, would you rather I take the blog down? Does it really blow it that bad for you?

I really just ignored this comment other than just made sure I never missed a re-read of a post before I published it.  But I had another one. Then another one.  I deleted those comments, fixed the mistakes.    I would have gone off on them even more than this guy, but then I realized to act as though they never existed would be much better suited, comment deleted, ta-da! gone.  I figured if I don't have time to post an encounter, then I sure as hell don't have time to respond to people I could only hope to never meet in life. As we obviously would be wasting each others time, neither of us would have an ounce of respect for each other.  Harsh, maybe, probably true though.

Sorry if this post even seems like a waste and some are saying ON WITH THE GOOD STUFF, okay, you got it.  Coming right up.

Monday, April 29, 2013

For certain encounters, my presence affects things



This is a huge dilemma for me.  Concerning the first meet with a new guy for potential fucking.  This visit is more special than the rest.  It is so unscripted, so natural, so animalistic that it is at the very heart of what I want to capture on film.  Done well, I will go solo 4 times the first time I get to review it, just like I did last monday night when I was reviewing Sunday's activities, lol.  But there is a balance of how much of me being in the room  is affecting things.  Without myself being in the room, the great epic shots will not be captured as stationary cameras are more luck when it comes to being pointed at the right angle and always have to be set at a wider angle so they can catch as much as possible incase they move around.  So, with a small protest from her, I agreed to setting up 3 cameras and for me to stay out of the room for as much as possible. ( 3 cameras??? she said, lol)  Figured 3 cameras might get more lucky.  They did. Still not as good as if I was there, but I would say 80%. I can live with that.  I felt that if I didn't come in the room, then I just might capture more raw natural footage by letting the dice roll on 3 cameras.  Have to wait till the guy was super comfortable and actually telling me to be there so he could actually show off his talents in giving my woman the time of her life.

JVC CU-PC1
I learned a bit and I am also cheating some.  First, GoPro cameras suck for this kind of thing unless they are picked up by one of them and held from a point of view angle, going to have to wait for future visits for that I think. Crappy vid quality (in comparison) and way too wide of a picture, people are the size of ants even if the camera is on a nightstand.  But, if that is all you got, use it, as it did actually save my bacon on one angle.  See http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/2013/04/last-wed.html for when he is pulling her thong to the side on the last 2 pictures.  Thats a GoPro camera and thankfully it was there getting that angle, it was hot.  But now for the cheat - 

read up about it here:

So far, I have not been able to test it.  I bought a JVC GZ-EX210 to work with it but the cradle only works with 2013 JVC cameras and the EX210 is a 2012.  I sent it back and will be ordering 2 more 2013 cameras,  yes, 2 more. Those 2 along with the Panny I am using http://thehotwifehasyou.blogspot.com/p/camcorder-suggestion-for-any-aspiring.html   gives me 3 camera angles to work with (bye bye GoPro).

Back to the cradle - if you read up on it you will see that you can control panning and zooming of the cameral by remote through an app for your smartphone or tablet.  I did get to use the 210 model on this last visit and did try out the zooming feature via remote from my car in the parking lot below the room.  Yup, I saw every single thing they did.  I could zoom in and out and press record or pause at any time.  This let me be able to decide if I needed to go ahead and enter the room and hand film myself or to stay out as the camera was getting good stuff.  It also let me be involved while they were having fun instead of just sitting around and wondering what they were doing.  And finally, it got rid of the only reason I had chose not to do this in the past, her protection.  I never left her alone in the past on a first meet, always took a few hookups for both of us to feel comfortable.  But now, hell, I could call 911 faster from my car then I can if I was in the  room and had to fight a guy.  This becomes a deterrent for a guy with bad intentions from doing anything evil from the start.  If I was in the room and a guy had bad plans, as much as I say I can take care of myself, I am kidding myself with every encounter that might happen.  I am not nearly as a deterrent as a camera recording everything and sending the video remotely to another location.  While the footage is kept on the camera, both screen stills and short clips can be sent to the remote location and saved, automatically if set to do so.  So even if he trashed the cameras/SD cards, evidence still exists and cops are on the way.  

Hate to talk like I did above, but it is the world we live in and a nice deterrent can let us relax more, just saying.  How did it work? good, not great, but good enough.  With a second camera and them both on cradles, this will be great.  Then I can get with the guy to see how comfortable he is and at a predetermined time, I could come in and pick up the panny and get some epic shots, but if not, I can just work the 2 cameras remotely and get plenty of good stuff.  Finally, after a few visits, or when ever it just feels right a some guys want me there the whole time to show off, even from a corner chair I can use the remote control on the cameras on the other side of the room and still get improved shots without getting up too close and have them feel like I was hovering.  Some don't like that. And it does affect things.

I will let you know how it goes the next time, I should have one camera on a cradle and one not, and also my panny, all looking from 3 different angles.

Friday, April 26, 2013

Last Sunday, new guy

This guy does it for her.  Big time. Older, more experienced, takes what he wants, yet excites her with things she has never seen before.  He is most definitely leading her how he wants things to go for future meets.  There are lots of texts going on about how her ass is his next time and how for the first time a man will be cumming down her throat, a topic she won't even discuss with me.  Yet she is excited to get busy with him on working on it.  That right there should tell you many things about these two getting together.



 


Sunday, April 14, 2013

Last Wednesday night

I don't have time to write at the moment, but still wanted to post a couple pics from last Wednesday night, 2nd hook up with the guy from Friday night.  Looks like they are planning on meeting again this Wednesday night but I am not going, she is meeting him alone in a hotel in his home town but promises to set up the cameras.  This will be the first for that, I will probably be going nuts waiting for her to get home, can't wait!








Tuesday, April 2, 2013

We're Back!!


Bam!  I am very excited.  Ok, I might be jumping the gun here.  To summarize the last 3'ish weeks, we are talking more.  We opened up to each other more than we have ever before about our feelings on the topic of the hotwife lifestyle.

It started with a blow up between the two of us, basically me finally voicing things I have noticed on where we were headed, room mates.  Very good room mates, best of room mates.  Boy did I not know how those two words got her to talk to me.  She hates those words.  She said "Is that all you want out of this, to be room mates?".  I answered with a hell no, but then talked about the signs I see.  We talked about those and that brought out even more things.  To sum that up, I could say that we most likely jumped into the hotwife lifestyle and continued in it too soon and too fast with not enough communication during the whole thing.  Looking back, it's easy to see, you know the saying on that.

But since we stopped 'playing' we both have had lots of time to think about things and be reminded of the normal lifestyle.  This was a very good thing.  We covered a lot of different topics, including her lessening libido, possible causes and what we could to to improve it.  Come to find out, we needed to talk about lots of things, things she was not opening up to me about but needed to be discussed.  For now, that's all, I will try to blog more about more details soon.

So where do I get 'We're Back!!" from?  The real good news is, she is texting two gentlemen now and one of those she plans on meeting in a week or two.  She even sent one of them some naughty pics of herself and she has been simmering all week long with a very high libido as she rides the high of thinking about fucking these guys.  We have more talking to do and she even says she has not decided on anything yet, but her foot is well into the water I would say at this point........

Just for adding a couple pictures to the context of what I wrote, here are two of the pics she sent one of the guys:



hotwife blog


Needless to say, he was a little speechless and I think he will be fucking her later tonight, she just won't know it as he is 7 hours away and will be all by himself when he does, lol.  He will probably be fucking her several times this week actually, I am sure.  What I see is her awakening to what she really wants and going after it.

Monday, March 4, 2013

Dreamy Hotwife

Just thought this pic was high on the scale of hotwife hotness.  Everyone is getting high off this erotic moment.  The stud is getting to fuck a hot and otherwise not accessible wife and possibly gets the joy of taking her new places that 'married' sex either quit taking her or never took her in the first place.  The two of them get to enjoy this immensely, both in their prime physically for fucking and both giving and taking what each other needs. Hubby gets to see this,  I know first hand on how he is doing! 
  

Monday, February 25, 2013

First time she had 'extra' fun

This one actually doesn't count as playing outside a relationship, as technically they broke off the relationship earlier in the day.  But of course mr boyfriend thought he still 'owned' her so he made sure to spread bad things about her when he found out.  Typical high school antics.  Yes, it was in high school, they just broke up and she wasn't going to stay at home and pout about it.  So she decided to go to the school dance as a single and show every one what he lost and of course flirt all night long.  It didn't take long for her to be sitting at a table next to a guy she had always thought was a hottie.  Even shorter time to be stroking his cock under the table through his dress pants.  She said it lasted about an hour, oh my how turned on he must have been and how much she wanted his cock inside of her.  I am sure he wanted to fuck her bad, her in such tight jeans that she said everyone used to stare at, she just loved the attention.

So there they are, 18 years old and both as horny as hell and she is just acting out with what she enjoys.  Playing in a taboo way, being naughty right out in public, but yet she needed it, to finally be free to be able to take what she wants, in hand, literally.  Up till then, she had never felt another cock other than her ex from just hours before, so the first thing she does is feel up another one, lol.  This is so fucking hot for me to think about.  Sure, lots of other things being played out here, but still, underneath it all, she needs cock, she needs it responding to her touch and if she can have her way, she needs it driving into her over and over, soon.  Even at this age, she is learning about herself and her needs.  So, while this was not technically cheating, its just a few hours outside that cheating window, isn't that hot?  Stays the good girl yet is grabbing new cock asap, easily justifiable in her mind that she waited long enough to get what she wants.

Years earlier, she says she learned to masturbate at about age 8 or so, by laying on her stomach on a hard carpeted surface and grinding her pelvic mound into the ground so that is activates her G spot just on the other side.  She still does it today, takes about 5 min.  Not only does she not deny herself what she needs, but it gave her ass a great work out each day, tada, now we know how she got that ass!!

Point I am trying to make, good for her, I wish I could have been there that night watching her at that table like an obsessed groupie, but Ill take what ever I can get at this point! But its not me pushing her, its me just wanting to watch her be herself.

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Losing weight and libido update

To answer a couple of comments, no, we are not currently 'playing'.  Wish we were, but there are a bunch of little issues that just are not letting it be as enjoyable as it could be.  Number one, her libido is pretty low, which I feel is due to her feeling not as attractive as she wants to be.  Nothing to do with the hotwife lifestyle, this is just her wanting to lose some weight and feel good about herself.  Her ideal weight is about 125-130 for her height, she is about 150.  She looks great in my eyes and everyone else's, but she just can not be herself until she loses down to her goal weight.  She is currently going to weight watchers as she loves to be accountable each week to have to weigh in, so the program is great for her.  Started at 156, now just about 148.  Until her libidio is up, nothing sexual is interesting to her, def not going through the work of finding a fuck buddy.

Number 2 reason, I am in the same boat with the weight loss, I have a lot going on at work that affords me very little time at home to excersize and when I do get home, all I want to do is relax and take my mind off of work.  But my libido is not low but constantly driving me and making me always think of very naughty things, mostly of her being very very naughty.  Luckily I have a few videos of her and her various fuck buddies having fun to watch and go solo to, without those I would be very stir crazy. I constantly see things in each vid that I had not noticed before and it is so awesome every time I do.  I don't last.  It's a band-aid for sure, but it knocks my libido down for the day so I can get back to concentrating on work and such.  Keeps me thinking of her and yet no so much that I am clawing after her when she is not in the mood.  I go solo to her at least once a day, twice if I missed the day before.  And if something gets me turned on that is not something to do with her, rarely do I end my solo session unless I find a way to put her in the 'scene', then POW, I explode.  Even if the scene its self is super hot, great looking pornstars and they seem to really be enjoying things, its hot, but if I pop her into the scene, that does it, I am done.

So that is where we are today, many other little issues, she has brought up a few, but then they seem to go away.  Last one I finally got out of her was that she doesn't like the camera there, that she feels like she putting on a show for me.  I am taken back by this quite a bit as this must be new as she has always said that she doesn't even know the camera is there after a few minutes of fun.  I also have video proof that she doesn't even know what planet she is on most of time once the fucking begins, lol.

But still, I have taken everything she says in to think about and I do think about them.  It seems to me that she gets bothered by it if the guy she is with is bothered by it.  I have video proof of that exactly happening on the last guy she with.  He did not feel 100% comfortable with his face being on film, never told me it was a problem, but you could tell it was.  And she seemed to feed off of that.  Also, he cut contact with her as a clean break, first one to do that on their end, its always been her that cuts it off.  So, she ran many things things through her head on why he did that as she REALLY liked him.  She came up with many ideas on why, all or some might have played into it, but probably he just wanted it that way due to a new or ex girlfriend returning to his world.   But after that instance, she let me know the camera was an issue for her sometimes.  Definitely going to have to think how to be a little more inconspicuous with the camera and def feel out the guy more on this true feelings.  I think they want to fuck her so bad that they overlook on how they really feel about the camera.  I can work on that.

What many may not know is, I really was not the driving force for her to want to seek out her indulgences outside a relationship.  She has had three instances in previous relationships where she had some fun on the side.  I knew of 2 of them till recently, the 3rd I just learned about last year which was extremely hot to hear.  Also, when we were talking as we got to learn more of each other at the beginning of our relationship  there were a few things that happened that also pointed towards her really needing to be fucked when she needed to be fucked.  lol. I want to put these things in writing next blog entry so I can think them through.